Saturday, September 19, 2015
Almost a Home
The house we are building in Catembe is almost done! It is a very typical Mozambican cinder-block house. There is one bedroom, a living room and a bathroom. The carpenter just has to mount the doors and windows and there is a little work to finish up in the bathroom. So in a about a weeks time, this will be Nelson and Ginito's new home. We have reached out to people living in the Maputo area asking for donations for the house - kitchen pots, plates, utensils, linens, bunk beds, dressers, sofas, etc. Hopefully we'll receive a little to make the house feel like home for these boys. If you happen to live in Maputo and would like to help, please send me an email at solds19@gmail.com
Friday, September 4, 2015
Chico: Home Again!
In 2012, I posted about taking one of my favorites back to his family. Chico. His story of leaving the streets has been a tough one. His mom's home is on the outskirts of the city and for the past 3 years, he's fought the allure of returning to the streets....often loosing the battle. He's been back and forth from home and the streets more times than I can remember. Each time he showed up at Masana, we'd try showing tough love in hopes that he'd quickly return home. Some of his stints on the street were for weeks or months. At one point, we only allowed him to come to our center 2 days a week in hopes that he'd return home.
Earlier this year, Chico went back home again. And its seems as if his family have finally figured out how to help him. His grandmother, who lives a good 30 or 40 minutes from the city, has taken him in. Simply putting some distance between him and the city has done the trick. This past week I visited him at his new home. How he's grown-up over these past 3 years! His grandmother's home seems filled with joy. She genuinely loves Chico and wants to see him doing well. Getting him into school in that area is going to be a challenge because of his age vs. grade level. But we will see what options we can find for him. For now, he's helping his grandmother with the farm and raising a few pigs. So beautiful to see him finally living a normal Mozambican life!!
Saturday, August 15, 2015
Putting Down Roots - Part 2
"God makes homes for the homeless"
Psalm 68:8 (The Message Bible)
I shared in "Putting Down Roots - Part 1" that we have purchased land in Mozambique to build a home for our family. We will not build our house for a couple of years though so we have felt God calling us to make a home for the homeless. We have chosen 2 boys, Ginito and Nelson, who have both been on and off the streets since I first started working with Masana in 2009. We have started the process of building a small house on the land where these 2 boys will live and have the opportunity to make a new life for themselves.
Ginito is 18 years old and Nelson is 19. Neither of them are your typical street boy. They are both so respectful and hard working. Thankfully, God has protected them over the years from falling into the temptations of drugs and alcohol. Ginito is very intelligent and eager to go back to school, which he will in January when the new school year begins. Nelson is a worker. . . he doesn't do well sitting around and has, over the years, always arranged small jobs like selling bread or working in a shop. He is now the newest employee at Armadura Gym, the gym that serves as an income generator for Masana.
When we finally do build our home on our property, the boy's house will still exist and we've told them they are welcome as a part of our family until God gives them their own families. Join us in praying for Ginito and Nelson as they enter into this new season of life. Pray they will fully embrace the plans and purposes God has for them.
Friday, August 14, 2015
Putting Down Roots - Part 1
As a family, we have always prayed about the need to put down roots here in Maputo. Since before we married, Roberto has talked about wanting to buy land and build a home. I’ve always been hesitant because I like living in the city. But living in the city means renting which is not something we want to do for the rest of our lives. So we’ve felt God directing us toward the option of buying land. For me personally, it is as if He’s reminding me that Mozambique is my home. He has called me here. He’s given me family here. Now He wants me to put down roots.
After prayer, we decided that we would sacrifice our trip to the States this year and use the money we would have spent on plane tickets to buy land. We have purchased a 40x50 meter plot in an area called Catembe, which is just across the Maputo Bay here in the city. For now, its only possible to get there via ferry boat but a large suspension bridge has been started and is scheduled to be completed by the end of 2017. Once the bridge is completed, Catembe will be easily accessible and will, essentially, become a part of the city.
We don't plan on living on our land until the bridge is completed as it costs about $20 to take your car across and back on the ferry. So that gives us a couple of years to dream and plan for our future home. But we aren't going to just sit on an empty plot for these next couple of years....stay tuned for "Putting Down Roots - Part 2"
Wednesday, July 1, 2015
Zacarius: Still Suffering
Over the weekend, I received a phone call from some of the
street boys telling me that Zacarius was really sick. You may remember a post I wrote in March
about Zacarius suffering an injury that required the use of a catheter for 3
months. The doctor had instructed him to
return to the hospital every 15 days to change the tube to his catheter. Zacarius agreed to go back home where the
conditions were more sanitary than on the streets and, for the first month, he
did well with keeping to his biweekly doctors visit.
But then Zacarius gave into the temptation to return to the
streets…as so many boys do after they’ve tasted this life. And he stopped going to the doctor to have
his tube changed. That brings us to this
past weekend when the other street boys called me because Zacarius was really
sick because of an infection.
Roberto spent a few hours with Zacarius at the hospital on
Tuesday where the doctor very painfully removed the infected tube and put in a
new one. The doctor has decided that he
will need surgery to fix the problem in his urethra. But there are only 2 urologists in Maputo,
which means they are very busy and can only schedule Zacarius’ surgery for September.
3 more months with a catheter.
3 more months of fighting the temptation to return to the
streets again.
Please join us in praying for Zacarius. Roberto’s heart broke in the hospital as
Zacarius cried out in the midst of all the pain asking God what he had done to
deserve this. May he know God has not
caused this suffering but that God desires to use it to draw him into a
relationship with Him. Pray for Zacarius
to resist the temptation to return to the streets. Pray for his relationship with his uncle and
aunt, with whom he is living. Pray for
his healing.
Zacarius and his brother were the first street kids I met
when I moved to Mozambique. They
continue to have a special place in my heart.
I desperately want to see God transform their lives. Despite the fact that, after 7 years, they
are still on the streets, I know God has not given up on them. So I won’t either.
Wednesday, June 3, 2015
Turning My Eyes to Jesus
This morning I woke up feeling nervous...butterflies in my stomach. And the reason why is quite odd. It's because, as of today, I have set aside Wednesday mornings to be alone. From now on, I will leave Masana on Wednesday mornings. No street boys. I will leave Melina and Maya with our amazing nanny. No daughters. I will leave Roberto to carry on our work at Masana. No husband.
It's just me.
And that makes me nervous.
It's been a long time since I've intentionally set aside time to be alone. But its so necessary. These past few weeks, I've felt like I'm drowning. I've felt so overwhelmed trying to juggle being a wife and mother and caretaker to 30 boys. I feel like Peter who stepped out of the boat and started walking towards Jesus. But somewhere along the way, I, like Peter, took my eyes off of Jesus. I started looking towards my family and my ministry. And all of a sudden, I've found myself drowning.
So today I place my eyes back on Jesus. I reach out my hand and take His. I put my need for Jesus before my responsibilities with my family and my ministry. Because I know that I need Jesus to be able to love my family as they deserve to be loved. I need Jesus to be able to serve the boys of Masana as I long to serve them. I need Jesus.
It's just me.
And that makes me nervous.
It's been a long time since I've intentionally set aside time to be alone. But its so necessary. These past few weeks, I've felt like I'm drowning. I've felt so overwhelmed trying to juggle being a wife and mother and caretaker to 30 boys. I feel like Peter who stepped out of the boat and started walking towards Jesus. But somewhere along the way, I, like Peter, took my eyes off of Jesus. I started looking towards my family and my ministry. And all of a sudden, I've found myself drowning.
So today I place my eyes back on Jesus. I reach out my hand and take His. I put my need for Jesus before my responsibilities with my family and my ministry. Because I know that I need Jesus to be able to love my family as they deserve to be loved. I need Jesus to be able to serve the boys of Masana as I long to serve them. I need Jesus.
Monday, May 4, 2015
Who Cares?
Twice now since the beginning of this year, we’ve had street
boys severely beaten. And it’s as if
that fact…that they are street boys…makes it no big deal.
The first boy was beaten in a local cemetery and left for
dead. We found him a day later and got him
to the hospital. He underwent 2
operations to drain the blood from his skull.
He survived but he’s not the same.
Because of the trauma he suffered, he now has mental deficiencies that
will probably plague him for the rest of his life. But who cares? He’s just a street boy.
Last week, another street boy was beaten…and this one didn’t
make it. His attackers beat him so
severely that he succumbed to his injuries.
The left him to die in the woods where his body was later found by some
other street boys. Yes, the young boy
was in the wrong as he was attempting to steal a car radio. But since when does stealing warrant
death?!?! But who cares, right? After all, he was just another street
boy.
But I care.
It’s not okay with me that the police do nothing because
it’s “just a street boy.” It’s not okay
with me that others hear of these tragedies and think, “oh well it was just
another street boy.” They are more than
“just street boys.” They are sons. They are brothers. They are uncles and
cousins. They are my friends.
I pray that God will continue to give me His heart for these
boys. My God doesn’t see “just another
street boy.” He knows them by name. He knit them together in their mothers’
wombs. They are so precious in His
sight. He has such incredible plans and
purposes for their lives.
And I know my God is not okay with their lives being
snatched away from them. He cares. He cares deeply.
May all of my boys know these truths.
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